14 May 2025

Tying Up Loose Ends: THR v WAT and the Realities of High-Net-Worth Divorce

In THR v WAT [2025] EWHC 1125 (Fam), His Honour Judge Hess was faced with the unenviable task of transforming a multi-million-pound Xydhias agreement into a final financial remedy order—navigating disputed terms, hidden costs, forgotten interest, and inflated child maintenance schedules. The judgment offers practitioners a rare insight into the pitfalls of rushed settlements and the court’s insistence that “a deal is a deal”—even if you think you left something out.

The Context: A Quick Settlement in a Heavyweight Case

This was a “big money” case with substantial assets on both sides. The parties had six bundles of documents and a 10-day final hearing listed, but they reached an agreement on day one—what both sides called a binding Xydhias agreement. The problem? Not everything was spelled out clearly.

Over the next few days, the drafting revealed five points of contention:

  1. Whether a company loan should reduce the wife's lump sum.
  2. Whether estimated legal fees should be adjusted post-settlement.
  3. Whether the lump sums should attract interest.
  4. Whether the wife should receive additional security.
  5. What level of child periodical payments (CMS top-up) the husband should pay.

Xydhias Means Finality, Not Flexibility

The husband had agreed to pay the wife £36 million, less “what she already had”—a sum which his own documents put at £2.09 million. But he later argued this was a mistake, particularly because it didn’t reflect the (supposed) value of the wife’s interest in a company called X Ltd or her reduced legal fees.

The court disagreed.

Judge Hess reminded both parties that once they reached a Xydhias agreement, the court’s role was not to re-write the deal unless there had been fraud or clear mistake. The husband, having made a firm offer based on £2.09 million, was held to it. His Honour was clear:

“There was time to raise this if it was important... a deal is a deal.”

No Interest Means... No Interest

The wife’s team attempted to insert a clause for interest on the deferred lump sums—months after the deal was struck. Judge Hess ruled this was an afterthought, not part of the agreed terms. Despite being asked to add 3.75% interest on unpaid instalments, he refused:

“If the wife’s team wanted those to be an essential part of the deal, there was plenty of time... They did not.”

Security Provisions: Reasonable, Not Total

The husband offered partial security against the lump sums, which the wife wanted increased to 100%. The judge declined, noting the husband had already paid £5 million early and was not shown to be a flight risk or unwilling to comply. The court endorsed the principle that perfect security is not always necessary where trustworthiness is evident.

Top-Up Maintenance in the HNW World

Both parties agreed the case warranted a CMS top-up order under section 8(6) of the Child Support Act 1991. But the figures were miles apart:

  • Wife’s position: £50,000 per child, per annum (£150,000 total).
  • Husband’s position: £20,000 per child, per annum (£60,000 total).

Judge Hess landed in the middle at £25,000 per child—totalling £75,000 per year—and made some trenchant comments about the inflated and unrealistic budget put forward by the wife. Among the claims: £120,000 on holidays, £6,000 for children’s computers, and £2,000 on Christmas gifts.

We are dealing with children aged six, six, and three... the needs of children must be finite whatever the payer’s income.”

This aligns with the James v Seymour approach—where top-up maintenance is assessed from first principles (s.25 MCA 1973) rather than simply applying a cap or CMS formula.

Key Lessons for Practitioners

  • Don’t leave “loose ends” in a Xydhias deal—spell out issues like interest, security, and assumptions about asset values at the time of agreement.
  • Final means final—the court won’t revisit a deal just because one side gets buyer’s remorse.
  • Avoid “aspirational” budgets—top-up child maintenance claims must be grounded in actual need, even in ultra-wealthy families.
  • Security must be proportionate—perfect cover isn’t always required if the payer has a history of compliance.

Final Word

THR v WAT is a textbook example of the messiness that can follow an expensive, high-stakes settlement reached too quickly. For those dealing with big numbers and complex structures, it’s a reminder: if you want clarity, earn it at the drafting table—not by asking the court to fix what you forgot to ask for.

15 April 2025

When Is a Deal a Deal? Understanding Xydhias Agreements in Financial Remedy Cases

In the emotionally charged landscape of divorce litigation, reaching an agreement on finances can feel like the light at the end of the tunnel. But what happens when one party tries to walk away from a deal before it becomes a court order? This is where the concept of a Xydhias agreement comes into sharp focus.

What Is a Xydhias Agreement?

A Xydhias agreement arises when divorcing parties agree financial terms—often after full disclosure and negotiation—but before the court has approved a final consent order. The term comes from the leading case Xydhias v Xydhias [1999] 2 All ER 386, [1999] 1 FCR 289, [1998] EWCA Civ 1966, [1999] Fam Law 301, [1999] 1 FLR 683, in which the Court of Appeal held that a party cannot unilaterally withdraw from an agreement that was clearly intended to be binding and where all material terms were settled.

However, such agreements are not contracts in the traditional civil sense. They are still subject to court scrutiny under section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, and a judge must be satisfied that the outcome is fair.

Xydhias Agreements vs. Rose Orders

It is essential to distinguish between a Xydhias agreement and a Rose order:

  • A Xydhias agreement is informal and may be disputed, though binding in principle where consensus was clearly reached.
  • A Rose order, named after Rose v Rose [2002], arises when the court has approved the agreement, usually at an FDR, and pronounced the terms—even if the written order has not yet been perfected.

This distinction was usefully explored in Kicinski v Pardi [2021], where Lieven J reinforced that while a Xydhias agreement reflects consensus, a Rose order carries judicial weight and limits a party’s ability to resile.

Why It Matters

Many clients are surprised to learn that a signed heads of agreement or solicitor-to-solicitor correspondence may bind them to terms they didn’t expect to be final. The Family Court aims to prevent tactical withdrawal from agreements simply because of a change of heart.

To avoid confusion:

  • Always document agreements clearly.
  • Clarify whether terms are intended to be binding.
  • Explain to clients the legal implications and potential for a "show cause" application if one side later backtracks.

Procedure: The Show Cause Application

If one party attempts to resile from a concluded agreement, the other may apply for the court to determine whether the terms should be upheld. This is called a show cause application, made within the ongoing Part 9 proceedings.

Steps include:

  1. Set out the terms and evidence of the agreement (e.g. signed heads of terms).
  2. Invite the court to determine whether a binding agreement exists.
  3. Respond to any claims of duress, mistake, or non-disclosure.
  4. If the court finds a Xydhias agreement exists, it proceeds to a section 25 hearing to assess fairness.

The court retains discretion and can vary or reject terms if they would result in injustice. But where the agreement is sound, it is often upheld.

Practical Advice for Family Lawyers

  • Always advise clients that agreements may become binding, even before a sealed order.
  • Label any documents (e.g. heads of terms) with their intended legal status.
  • Consider including wording that explicitly states whether the agreement is to be treated as Xydhias-compliant or provisional.
  • Prepare for potential show cause proceedings where disputes arise.

Key Cases

Conclusion

In family law, a handshake—or more often, a signed PDF—can carry more weight than clients expect. Understanding the legal status of a financial settlement is crucial. Whether the agreement is a Xydhias one or a Rose order, practitioners must ensure clients are properly advised, and that terms are clearly recorded. Because once you’ve agreed, it may not be so easy to walk away.

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